How to Pick up Women

Get attention, positive attention

Unlike the tactics that other 'pickup artists' may advise, don't try to peacock your style, but draw attention to yourself positively. This is one of the easiest tips to pick up women. Just be yourself, no need for a fuzzy hat or a signature 'line'.

The closets I have done to pecocking is a baseball cap, when it was a warm night. If you want to draw attention to yourself positively make yourself worthy of focusing on. When you go to the bar, pick up a good drink (something in a glass rather then a can) or if you are in public, be polite. This tip on how to pick up women, just keeps you from looking like a horses ass. Thank me later.


Compliment, don't 'neg'

Other pickup artists will advocate for the practice of giving a woman a 'neg' or as I like to say it, 'making an attractive woman feel like crap,' by giving a backhanded compliment (example: that is the best dye job I've seen on a brunette) and then building her up through a series of compliments.

Instead try this: A new compliment. Every attractive woman has heard, 'you're hot' the difference is finding something new. Actually talk with a woman and find something worth complimenting her on rather then her tits. This lesson on how to pick up women keeps you from getting slapped.

Pursue, don't creep

When a woman isn't interested it is obvious. One of the key tips for how to pick up women is knowing when to cut bait. When a woman gives you a cold shoulder or starts blowing you off to see other people, then just go. Many guys overstay their welcome, get more to drink and become the creepy grabby guy.

Here's what you do: You go away. Remember the old adage that there are 'plenty of fish in the sea' and just leave. Go back to the bar, or go outside and just relax, (I advise against drinking more, you'll just keep going until you don't stop).

Following this tip for teaching you how to pick up women, will result in you spending the night in your own bed rather then jail where you'll get the kind of attention you don't want.

Keep it real and honest

This tip for how to pick up women pertains to honesty.
If you are looking to pick up a woman for the purpose of sex, just admit it. Again, guys remember, women are people too. Also remember that you aren't the only person in that bed and she enjoys it too. I'm not saying introduce yourself and immediately admit that you just want to bone her, just say that what you are looking for a she'll respect you more.

Use these tips and Godspeed Padawan.